Dirty deeds

So, my rant today is about sex.
Simply enough, why are people so prudish, so narrow minded - So un-willing to experiment?
Fair enough, it is a more open subject today than ever before, but I still find that there are a lot of people out there, totally un-willing to even consider certain possibilities! Why would anyone deny themselves pleasure? Why do people think sex is such a dirty thing, or judge people for enjoying it?

A friend recently said to me ''I'm scared to let my girlfriend finger my ass, I'm worried I will like it'' I really don't know why he would be scared of liking it. It's his girlfriend, it won't make him gay (Not that that should be an issue either). People attach far to much stigma to things. Guys, you wanna fuck your woman's ass, then great, but you gotta take a li'll something back too.  Same way that if you want a threesome, you really should consider both ways. Really, your lady is probably quite insecure against another woman in the bed, if she's gonna do that for you, then let her have another guy..... its rude not too!
Equally I don't get why guys get upset or intimidated by their woman having toys ~ fuck it, use it. You like turning her on? Break out the goods, really ~ it's not a competition, its a toy..... use it to enhance your sex life. These things shouldn't be for DIY only.

I meet so many people who like to think they are filthy, or like to think they want a filthy partner, but the truth is ~ when faced with something a little experimentational, they freak out. It genuinely confuses me ~ Why would you deny yourself something that could feel amazing? And if it doesn't, well ~ At least you can say you tried it. Is it really that harmful, to play around a little?
You only live one life, so play, experiment, enjoy it, every was possible!