So, my rant today is about sex.
Simply enough, why are people so prudish, so narrow minded - So un-willing to experiment?
Fair enough, it is a more open subject today than ever before, but I still find that there are a lot of people out there, totally un-willing to even consider certain possibilities! Why would anyone deny themselves pleasure? Why do people think sex is such a dirty thing, or judge people for enjoying it?
A friend recently said to me ''I'm scared to let my girlfriend finger my ass, I'm worried I will like it'' I really don't know why he would be scared of liking it. It's his girlfriend, it won't make him gay (Not that that should be an issue either). People attach far to much stigma to things. Guys, you wanna fuck your woman's ass, then great, but you gotta take a li'll something back too. Same way that if you want a threesome, you really should consider both ways. Really, your lady is probably quite insecure against another woman in the bed, if she's gonna do that for you, then let her have another guy..... its rude not too!
Equally I don't get why guys get upset or intimidated by their woman having toys ~ fuck it, use it. You like turning her on? Break out the goods, really ~ it's not a competition, its a toy..... use it to enhance your sex life. These things shouldn't be for DIY only.
I meet so many people who like to think they are filthy, or like to think they want a filthy partner, but the truth is ~ when faced with something a little experimentational, they freak out. It genuinely confuses me ~ Why would you deny yourself something that could feel amazing? And if it doesn't, well ~ At least you can say you tried it. Is it really that harmful, to play around a little?
You only live one life, so play, experiment, enjoy it, every was possible!
Sunday, 5 August 2012
Size matters...?
I have spent most of my night watching Festival highlights on TV. This always makes me wistful, it also makes me smile though. Most of my best memories are festival related and the best 5 days of my life are likewise.
These are, of course highlights from festivals I have been too ~ and there is always stuff I missed (watching another band or something). Anyway, I was discussing earlier with a friend, how much I would like a day ticket to see the Foo Fighters at Leeds or Reading this year. His response was that, while he wouldn't mind ~ he would rather catch them at a smaller gig of their own, than at a festival.
Having spent most of my gigging life at venue's such as Norwich's Waterfront and the UEA I very much appreciate the intimacy of a smaller gig, its much more personal, you can see much better, you don't get freezing cold, have to wade about in mud or get piss thrown over you ~ All bonus's, I agree. Another perk is that you get a decent time slot with the band you wish to see.
However, all it took for me this evening, was watching a crowd 80,000 (or possibly more) people deep, moshing, hands in the air, in the cold and the rain. Seeing this, (even on TV highlights) reminded me, why I would still choose a festival, the atmosphere alone is so intense, it is an amazing feeling to be part of that crowd ~ Even watching it back, knowing you were there. It is a completely in-comparable feeling to anything else I can think of. I think for me, it is one of the greatest highs I have ever experienced, and when I watch it back, and realise the sheer size of the crowd I was a part of, there is seriously nothing like it.
So, whilst I can say, I have a passion for music and I very much love the personal atmosphere of a small venue, and I shall continue to gig as much locally as I can. I can genuinely say there is really nothing like being part of an immense crowd, out in the open, braving whatever the weather throws at them, hands in the air, jumping, dancing, moshing and singing back the songs as loud as they can, that comes with an open air festival.
So, yeah! For once I can genuinely say, size makes a difference ~ Now, I think I need to go find myself a Bloodstock ticket! :D
These are, of course highlights from festivals I have been too ~ and there is always stuff I missed (watching another band or something). Anyway, I was discussing earlier with a friend, how much I would like a day ticket to see the Foo Fighters at Leeds or Reading this year. His response was that, while he wouldn't mind ~ he would rather catch them at a smaller gig of their own, than at a festival.
Having spent most of my gigging life at venue's such as Norwich's Waterfront and the UEA I very much appreciate the intimacy of a smaller gig, its much more personal, you can see much better, you don't get freezing cold, have to wade about in mud or get piss thrown over you ~ All bonus's, I agree. Another perk is that you get a decent time slot with the band you wish to see.
However, all it took for me this evening, was watching a crowd 80,000 (or possibly more) people deep, moshing, hands in the air, in the cold and the rain. Seeing this, (even on TV highlights) reminded me, why I would still choose a festival, the atmosphere alone is so intense, it is an amazing feeling to be part of that crowd ~ Even watching it back, knowing you were there. It is a completely in-comparable feeling to anything else I can think of. I think for me, it is one of the greatest highs I have ever experienced, and when I watch it back, and realise the sheer size of the crowd I was a part of, there is seriously nothing like it.
So, whilst I can say, I have a passion for music and I very much love the personal atmosphere of a small venue, and I shall continue to gig as much locally as I can. I can genuinely say there is really nothing like being part of an immense crowd, out in the open, braving whatever the weather throws at them, hands in the air, jumping, dancing, moshing and singing back the songs as loud as they can, that comes with an open air festival.
So, yeah! For once I can genuinely say, size makes a difference ~ Now, I think I need to go find myself a Bloodstock ticket! :D
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