human weakness

We are a seriously messed up species...And I personally think we should learn a thing or 2 from the animals.
Really, we are (even the most anti-social of us) a sociable group, and in all honesty, I think that's what screws us up. Our dependency on others is unhealthy, it makes us think all sorts of illogical shit, it makes us weak.
I've seen it in myself, I have seen it in those I care for ~ I have seen how someone allows the person who breaks their heart to be the one they think can fix it, how is this in anyway sane?
The more someone makes you sad, the more you seen to want to turn to them, all I can say to this is What the FUCK?

You should Never allow someone to be your priority, whilst you remain their option, at the end of the day, that's the sort of thinking that will get you in trouble, its what makes you go the extra mile, it makes you think you can get away with silly little things. Ask yourself this; its the zombie apocalypse, your about to go back to save that special someone, your probably going to get bit doing so. Would they have gone back for you? If your answer is an un-doubting yes, then your lucky you have possibly got it sorted, but if there is even the slightest of doubt in your mind, what you should now be asking yourself is,  would you really go back for them? Sadly the answer is probably still yes, that's the human condition, the weakness! But if we don't toughen up, there is no way we will survive.
The animal kingdom will always supersede us, they have mating instinct, they have survival instinct. They do not sit all day pining for the ones they cant have, or focusing on someone who clearly has no time for them... they do what they do and the move on!
Our abilities to feel such intense emotions are really not an asset, they are a death sentence... so why the hell cant we stop ourselves?